May 24th, 2023

Normalize telling people what they mean to you.

By that, I don’t just mean your family, your best friends. I mean that you should make it a point to tell people that you think they are important and that they have made a difference in your life, or in this world.

As I read through many of the things people have written over the past couple of weeks about my sweet husband, I wish he could have known the impact he had made, was still making, in the lives of others. Scott always felt like he should do more, be more, help more. Many times he felt he just wasn’t “enough”. I’m betting a lot of you can relate. I can. We let the weight of the things we haven’t gotten right override the strength of the things we have done well.

I know that you have done so many things well. Scott loved well. He made people feel worthy, safe, heard, appreciated, and loved. He made people feel like family and he wanted to be that with everyone. You might be that person to others, too.

My nephew, Judah, needed to hear these things more, too. He was all noise, exuberance, light, color, joy, and fun. He needed to know that he was that, not just to his family, but to many around him.

So, I encourage you today to tell someone what they mean to you. Tell them of the impact they have had. Tell them that the world would lose a great source of light if they were not here. Tell someone that you have learned something from their life and that it has changed you. Tell someone why you think they are an amazing and inspirational human. Not just your family members and closest friends. Tell an aquaintance, tell a co-worker, tell a stranger.

Just tell them while they are still here. ♥️